My friend, I too respect you immensely, but with that respect quite correctly shared, I fail to see how it can be construed as patronising.
It is my opinion mate. If that projects to you as such, I sadly can do little about that other than to state that is not my intention.
I think some people have refused to see the tweaks and alterations which have been made as this mad injury crisis has rolled through our squad, and further, I believe some people have confused a lot of what the manager is saying with what is actually going on. I'm happy to get into it more discussion-wise, but the short take is that I believe you can play football with the style and approach he has given us whilst also making adjustments along the way. There has been a pervasive narrative that his style is somewhat wreckless, which has led to everything from the losses to injuries. I maintain that plenty of the goals conceded have come down as much to individual errors as anything else. Again, one can happily discuss and debate whether the errors are a result of the system or players not being quite up to it for whatever reason (health, focus, ability).
I have mentioned the FBs not pushing on in several other games this season, and the midfield was certainly man-marking. Yet we did not alter our approch to the game, which was to look to win it.
I think there are many games from earlier this season where we had to watch first-halves which were bordering on tedious due to the lack of speed in build-up play due to trying to control the game and be patient as opposed to charging around and giving mid-low block teams easy street.