Really could have done with him taking more responsibility on the ball after conceding the first goal I think. Drop a bit deeper, make himself an option. Do something useful, or even just slow things down and make himself available again.
We needed to steady the ship. That doesn't mean abandoning our principles and going full Conte/Mourinho. But within those principles it's certainly possible to slow things down a bit when under pressure in several ways.
In a way I think the opposite of you. Believe all the hype, but know that it's only true if matched by application at all times. We're struggling, he's one of our best players, this is his time to shine. Perhaps not with a goal or an assist, but with his quality on the ball. This is the time to believe in yourself, take responsibility.