I don't get to as many matches as several here obviously, but on average I make about 6-7 games a season (this season being an exception it must be said). From my youthful days as a Shelf ST holder to now, I've seen changes which appear to mirror society in may ways, but there have always been a few individuals who just like to be clams/are clams.
What I notice now more than anything is the level of vitriol and pure bile. Especially in the last 6 to 8 years. Some of it is so toxic that I have to say something/tell perps to STFU, because if we don't stand up against mindless abusive oral diarrhea, then it goes on unchallenged. Generally, the away supporters have always been a bit wiser and more measured IMO. There is (as many have said) an air of entitlement which I suppose runs counter to what I believe in. I believe in Tottenham playing with that sense of audere est facere, and if we win like that it always feels more glorious. I think some of the jolity and humor has also left the game. There's no real sense of joy, it's either 'I should be having this experience anyway' or it's just so serious. I don't see people having a laugh as much as they used to at game, I don't see as many people just smiling and enjoying being in N17 (or on an away day - still a favourite of mine).
I'm going to be 58 in March. I still play once a week, I still feel naively excited whenever I am over and it is match day, I still smile and absord every moment of a match day, and I still believe we will win every game, because what's the point of being a supporter if you don't believe you can win? Slowly but surely, football is trying to squeeze all of that from me, whether it be Levy sacking Pochettino, whether it be some absolute f u c k i n g. t-wat hurling abuse mindlessly at a player (and therefore causing me to react because I won't listen to that brick unchallenged), whether it be the latest vitriolic social media/online 'campaign' to demonize someone, whether it be UEFA, FIFA and the PL conspiring to break players.
But somehow I can't give it up. And I won't.