I am not interested in proving you wrong. Why would I be, where is the value in it? I am only interested in looking at the evidence and realities in front of us.
Re. The Swiss Referendum, you referenced a 2014 one where 50.3% backed quotas on migration. The result in Switzerland from a month ago is far more conclusive 62% said they wanted to keep free movement, while 38% were against. These things are facts, not opinions. I think you might need to make a distinction.
If you wish to have a trading block, how do ensure everyone is competing on an equal footing without state aid laws to make things fair? Even within these laws there is national wiggle room. You'll find France uses a great deal of state aid, with the state owning a plethora of large companies.
Any examples of EU laws overriding UK laws that you don't like?
Completely agree we couldn't negotiate bespoke trade deals. On the flip side we benefited from EU trade deals and the weight of 500m people which opens doors. We lose some agility but gain weight and control over global affairs via the EU.
We can of course propose an EU law. One of the reasons it is so hard for anyone to identify an EU law they don't like, is they have to be in the interests of all the member countries. So most of the laws are 'likable'. Things like stopping pollution, helping free trade, free phone roaming, etc. Of course there will be compromises along the way, you can't have a free market across a whole continent comprising so many distinct nations without some compromise. But to me - in my opinion, and that of most economists - the benefits outweigh the compromises. If you think the reverse is true then evidence it.