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wn7ian said:
I found it the opposite, too many give their numbers too quickly! then you end up with the text tennis...and why didn't you reply flimflam! I prefer the old fashioned way, fudging mobile phones, apps and tinternet!
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You Casanova you
 
spurspinter1 said:
Woah haven't been on this thread in a while. Shame it all went a bit wrong Mr Ginola x3, drunk texts and facebook chats have been the end of many a promising thing. Personally I think it's better to stay away from this kind of communication apart from arranging dates etc, as the sofa salesman says, messaging constantly in the internet or whatever is quite dull compared to getting to know someone in person. Good advice from Guep and PLJ here.
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Yeh its ok mate. I will bounce back. Had dinner with the ex on Sunday and her family totally out of the blue. Went round to pick up my flat kjeys finally, and her mum insisted I had dinner. Brought back fcuking feelings, and then I text her saying I miss her and want her back. What a knob.

Im back on POF chatting to birds again until i find someone I guess. but I know I shouldnt be looking so im going to take it easy and try and do some more ME time.
 
GinolaGinolaGinola said:
Yeh its ok mate. I will bounce back. Had dinner with the ex on Sunday and her family totally out of the blue. Went round to pick up my flat kjeys finally, and her mum insisted I had dinner. Brought back fcuking feelings, and then I text her saying I miss her and want her back. What a knob.

Im back on POF chatting to birds again until i find someone I guess. but I know I shouldnt be looking so im going to take it easy and try and do some more ME time.
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You do yourself absolutely no favours at all,fella.
 
I tried POF once, was full of girls that loved Horses, or looked like em.

The only nice ones just seem to get f**ked off by all the weird messages they get.

Might give it another go though.. maybe they've forgotten me
 
WV1YID80 said:
You do yourself absolutely no favours at all,fella.
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I know. shocksville. But another day passes and it worries me less. So no more contact now, ie car has been handed over, I have my flat keys. There is nothing for us to talk about. It will make it far more easier.

Im messaging a new fit bird from POF which is taking my mind off things, and it will. This time im going to come back I promise, with a vengeance. As DHSF said in another thread about my vulnerability, fcuk that. Im bored of looking pathetic. onwards and upwards.
 
dingdongo said:
I usually stop reading at that point.. there should be an 'anti' search function to hide all horse lovers and teachers.

Sure this one is fit though... right?
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massively fit mate. couple of years older than me though. but not that that bothers me. shes coming down to chelmsford for a dinner date on Sunday. she seems nice.
 
Haven't chatted to some girl i got with a while back (not had contact in a month) and she randomly texts and rings me saying that she wants to see me. Says her and her friend have been chatting about me etc, the other one said i should see her 'even if its just a one time thing'. Now it's a guaranteed ahag i cant be arsed lol. Im so lazy with women.
 
Park Lane James said:
Haven't chatted to some girl i got with a while back (not had contact in a month) and she randomly texts and rings me saying that she wants to see me. Says her and her friend have been chatting about me etc, the other one said i should see her 'even if its just a one time thing'. Now it's a guaranteed ahag i cant be arsed lol. Im so lazy with women.
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she fit? do it mate, one night shag, you can be rubbish. do it!
 
GinolaGinolaGinola said:
Ive got an addiction to POF. I literally have about 8 dates lined up and no time to do them. Plus i dont know which one I fancy the most.

Internet dating is harder than real life....
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It is but maybe you just need to chill out on the dates and by that I mean meet for a coffee first - 20 mins - if you like them go on a date. Nothing worse seriously nothing fudgein worse than turning up and HAVING to spend an ENTIRE evening with a horse who is boring to chat to

Im taking this mocha girl (punching WAY above my weight here with this chick) to Winter Wonderland this saturday. That place is made for dates - you are guaranteed to kiss her by the end of it and even a bit of a fondle ha
 
My first forray back in to the site today. I've had one woman click on that 'meet me' thing, very hot! I messaged her telling her that I knew she didnt want to talk about herself online (something she had said in her profile) but that it would be good to get to know her better to decide if we should meet.

The way that I framed it is that if she does reply then the idea of meeting up is already set. If she, on the other hand, decides not to reply then all I've lost is the seconds that it took me to compose the message.
 
good going El G, ive literally copied and pasted my message this week to about 50 girls. Chatting to about 10 at the moment it is so confusing.

DHSF is right maybe I should go a coffee with most and see who is best.

Is it good to have a spreadsheet and mark them out of 10 after each date/coffee? I forget who im chatting with you see.
 
good going El G, ive literally copied and pasted my message this week to about 50 girls. Chatting to about 10 at the moment it is so confusing.

DHSF is right maybe I should go a coffee with most and see who is best.

Is it good to have a spreadsheet and mark them out of 10 after each date/coffee? I forget who im chatting with you see.
 
GinolaGinolaGinola said:
good going El G, ive literally copied and pasted my message this week to about 50 girls. Chatting to about 10 at the moment it is so confusing.

DHSF is right maybe I should go a coffee with most and see who is best.

Is it good to have a spreadsheet and mark them out of 10 after each date/coffee? I forget who im chatting with you see.
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Honestly, I don't think it will ever be a good thing to have the words date and spreadsheet in the same sentence.

It's only my opinion but I do think the whole dating thing should have a degree of spontaneity about it, and whether it's copy and pasting a message to every woman on the internet or planning sessions of attempting to ask any woman you bump in to on a street on a date with techniques from a youtube vid, I don't mean to sound judgemental but it just seems odd.

What are you trying to get from having 8 consecutive dates lined up, really?
 
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