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Dating sites...

How the hell did you message 50 different girls!? Last time I went on there and searched within 40 miles I only could only find maybe 1 or 2 girls I actually thought would be worth a date!

I bet if I viewed all them profiles I could find something wrong with 48 of them lol.
I must be seriously fussy haha!!
 
Well it's a guarantee that if there are 8 dates planned, there won't be 8 dates. If he likes one then in guessing he might decide not to go on one or more of the remaining dates. Or at least, that's what I would so given the same number of dates.
Plus choose the ones that I got on with best for the first few dates, if possible, as I'm guessing lookswise that they are all hot?
 
dingdongo said:
How the hell did you message 50 different girls!? Last time I went on there and searched within 40 miles I only could only find maybe 1 or 2 girls I actually thought would be worth a date!

I bet if I viewed all them profiles I could find something wrong with 48 of them lol.
I must be seriously fussy haha!!
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Maybe the area? There's not so much quality around my way so, like you, less than 50 to message.
 
spurspinter1 said:
Honestly, I don't think it will ever be a good thing to have the words date and spreadsheet in the same sentence.

It's only my opinion but I do think the whole dating thing should have a degree of spontaneity about it, and whether it's copy and pasting a message to every woman on the internet or planning sessions of attempting to ask any woman you bump in to on a street on a date with techniques from a youtube vid, I don't mean to sound judgemental but it just seems odd.

What are you trying to get from having 8 consecutive dates lined up, really?
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yeh thats what I thought. Odd.

Na just an idea. I dont know really, Ive jst found myself looking at a lot of women purely due the ease it is to contact them, then when I strike up a conversation I think I want to go on a date with her. It started with 1 then 2 and then sort of snowballed. But as said after my message, 8 dates probably only means 2 really as people lose interest and to go on 8 dates really is a bit stupid.ill narrow it down to to 2 or 3 and stick with that. Thats ample...
 
El Guepardo said:
Maybe the area? There's not so much quality around my way so, like you, less than 50 to message.
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I put something like 20 miles from my area and I have hundreds on mine as you would expect. Some are as far as Surrey, most are London or Essex areas.

It's just too easy to send a message to someone, hence you get people like me who message most of the hot ones, by law of average you will get a response. Im not looking to find love on this site, im looking to bang a lot of birds at the moment (but I dont tell them that! )
 
I went on a second date with a girl yesterday. I wanted to stab my face in the eyes and ears - horrible She was so fudgein dull and boring. She was great on the first date - then again I was drunk which may have impaired my judgement.
 
DHSF said:
There are some attractive ladies on there but im going for the ugly ones - easier.
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Very Sad. If you are not too good in the looks department, how about your personality.
Good luck mate. I have never used any online dating sites.
You see a girl, you like the look of her - go start a conversation. She maybe a 10 to look at and
you realize she is brick the moment she opens her mouth.

Be BRAVE. When you see a girl you fancy, walk up to her, smile, be nice and see how it goes.
If she tells you to get lost - so what. You will learn from each encounter - and you will be the THING
 
monkeybarry said:
without wanting to sound like an arse - grow a pair both of ya.

if you like someone, tell them. whats the worst that can happen?

you come with nothing, you leave with nothing....what you lost? noooooooothing
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THIS x 100. Are you Men or pussies. Have the courage. Girls normally like strong willed decisive guys. Looks play a part - to start with. Then your personality, charm, your thoughts etc. etc. take over. How many times have you seen a cracker of a woman with an " average " looking Joe. That Joe had the guts, while you guys hide behind a computer, and talk brick about your lack of good looks. Guys GO OUT AND CONQUER. Good Luck
 
Fcuking hell boys. You are screwing with my head.

Went out with a real lady last night one I met about a month ago but funnily enough she saw me on Facebook on Friday and my comment on some stuff and she added me and started talking to me, apparently she found me funny ans said i had had good banter. She's a friend of quite a few of my mates and she's stunning. Just a cool girl too.

Went to her local town Brentwood and had a good night out nandos then a few bars but I don't know whether I need to chill and text her tomorrow or ask her out again like today.

Girls have too much power nowadays and you know how I fcuked it by showing my feelings for this ther girl a few weeks back.

Fcuk it I'm going to ask her out again
 
Boys need your advice! She just text me. I left a message on her fb saying how you feeling? She said she can't message me back on there and has now asked how I am....

Say I'm good, and ask her out, or chill respond and wait, or don't even reply and play a game????
 
Kenyan Spur said:
Very Sad. If you are not too good in the looks department, how about your personality.
Good luck mate. I have never used any online dating sites.
You see a girl, you like the look of her - go start a conversation. She maybe a 10 to look at and
you realize she is brick the moment she opens her mouth.

Be BRAVE. When you see a girl you fancy, walk up to her, smile, be nice and see how it goes.
If she tells you to get lost - so what. You will learn from each encounter - and you will be the THING
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Nah I was just toying dude. I was playing up to it. You are right though about what you say.
 
The worst women are those that you have the perfect connection with, you chat to so much, and yet have no intention of meeting & giving things a chance!!

I think some women are caught up on the idea that if you meet someone on the Internet that either means you are desperate or they are a weirdo. Which by in large isn't right.

Why can't women take a chance, see what happens? All that's needed is one meeting and then each of you know.

I'm moving away from online but I'm hooked on her. I think it's time for a total shut out so I can forget about her & move on.
 
GinolaGinolaGinola said:
Boys need your advice! She just text me. I left a message on her fb saying how you feeling? She said she can't message me back on there and has now asked how I am....

Say I'm good, and ask her out, or chill respond and wait, or don't even reply and play a game????
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Leave Facebook alone mate, seriously. Stick to calling her, texting and talking in person
 
GinolaGinolaGinola said:
Boys need your advice! She just text me. I left a message on her fb saying how you feeling? She said she can't message me back on there and has now asked how I am....

Say I'm good, and ask her out, or chill respond and wait, or don't even reply and play a game????
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Dont play a fudgein game dude - she will be used to guys playing games and believe it or not girls are better than guys at that sort of thing.

And I agree with PLJ - fudge facebook - what the fudge are you doing leaving a message on fudgebook? You call or at the worst you text her - dont leave her an online message
 
I think the game playing should only be played if the rekationship is bumpy. If she acts like Shea taking you for granted. Otherwise be yourself but ensure that you don't give of yourself every time. Sometimes you need not to be available, not because you are playing games but instead to show that you each have your own life and so that she doesn't take you for granted.
 
And that should be, and was, if she acts like she is taking you for granted. Only my fudged up iPhone seems to decide what words appear, not following to what I have ACTUALLY typed!! iPhones seemingly have brick keypads
 
And why is it that when your relationship situation is getting fudged up that you end up with all these lovey dovey couples in front of you, they can go fudge each other in the dirty septic tanks of dirty bathrooms in the skankiest hotels as far as I'm concerned
 
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