Pirate: It means that if you actually think that I thought Modric is an out and out defensive midfielder you do not understand what I'm saying at all. I'm suggesting maybe you try harder if you would like to discuss this. I didn't in any way say that because 40% of the people here agree with me that we were right. That would be a logical fallacy, I try to avoid those. I was just saying that it seemed quite likely that we weren't all idiots, and that there was something to our point that maybe could be worth figuring out. Again, if you want to discuss this. For me understanding what other people are saying is a very important part of discussions, and you clearly did not understand my point of view.
What makes you think that I don't accept your opinion as valid? Would you like me to start all my points with a disclaimer about how I accept that you have your opinions, that it could be right, that I accept that there's a chance I'm wrong or that the opinions could be equally valid? I think that all these things as a given, it seems self evident, but as a basis for discussion and arguments I use my own opinions. What else could I use? If you just wanted to write out your opinion and not argue your opinion against the opinions of other people that's fine, but then I have severely misunderstood your posts.
Just like I don't feel threatened by your opinions, I do not take these things personally, and I generally assume that the majority of people on here don't either. I'm normally straightforward about my opinions and try to cut to the chase, I try to get to the basis of the discussion or argument. If it would make you feel better if I complemented my opinions with a lot of carefully worded statements about how all opinions and people are worthy and valuable to the debate and how I accept your opinions and right to hold those opinions as part of us both being valuable, but different, human beings on this planet I can't help you. It's just too time consuming and too far away from the relevant points. You can however rest assured, I don't take your opinions personally, I'm just trying to discuss the relevant points because I enjoy talking about and discussing football. Stating my opinion clearly, in opposition to yours while trying to provide evidence for my viewpoint is not taking it personally.
All though I agree that there are a lot of different opinions in football, and that everyone are entitled to their opinion, I am in no way a relativist and I believe that some opinions are closer to the truth than others and that discussions are a decent way of seeing which one is closer to the truth.