To be fair Billy, there is a difference between being defeatist and accepting that certain things cant be defeated as things stand. As long as CFC and Emirates Marketing Project have obscenely rich benefators spunking money at them in the manner that they have done recently, we are always going to struggle.
The only way that we will manage to do so is to find, nurture and keep some amazing world class talent, and strengthen the team that way. As we know, we would then simply end up fighting a rearguard action against agents and the big clubs trying to buy them off us.
Emirates Marketing Project/chelski/anzi/PSG and the two Spanish teams, who also have significant external financial support (as well as political in their case) will continue to offer obscene salaries and pay ludicrous amounts to ringfence the worlds top talent, preventing it being spread around to level the playing field.
I for one am no less committed as a Spurs fan, and as I have said, see every new season as finally being the one where we win the double again, until its an impossibility, but I am realistic enough to look at the squads of the other teams and recognise that we don't have the best team. At best (IMO) we will be fighting for 3/4 slots with Manure, arse and possibly Saudi Sportswashing Machine, if their bubble hasn't burst yet. The battle of the wallets will decide the top slots.
I wouldn't like to think that attitude as defeatist one though.