Mikey10
Johnny Morrison
From my memory Omagh was the big turning point. The brutality of that seemed to lose the IRA the support of a big chunk on their own community. And then the World Trade Centre thing a few years later permanently cut off the IRA's funding, when America experienced the consequences of their funding.
I think the reunification will happen sooner rather than later. I think emotionally Brexit was a big shock to the loyalists, realising how little England and Wales actually wants them and seeing how readily it threw them under a bus. Sein Fein also seem to be doing a decent job of governing for, rather than against them, and assuaging a lot of the fears of what a united Ireland will look like
Omagh took place six months after the signing of The Good Friday Agreement, so a peace agreement was already in place, and (a shaky) peace was already established. The bombing was carried out by The Real IRA, a splinter group opposed to the new direction of the Republican leadership. I’d agree, though, that it made a return to violence less likely, such was the revulsion from both sides of the community to the incident.
On Sinn Fein, I’d say the general view is that they’re doing anything but a good job of governing. They have been mired in a series of scandals.

Explained: The timeline of Sinn Féin's scandals | BreakingNews.ie
From the Michael McMonagle controversy to Brian Stanley's resignation, the average person may well wonder when it all started to go wrong.

These, along with the view that they actually aren’t great at the day-to-day slog of ‘normal’ politics, saw them suffer a pretty poor recent election result in the Republic, where their support halved.

Here's some key reasons why Sinn Féin have had a nightmare election
Sinn Féin's disastrous performance in this year’s local and European elections is likely to have sent the party scurrying back to the drawing board.

For most people in Northern Ireland, thoughts of unity just aren’t on their agenda. Life there has normalised greatly and people just get on with it. The British state is by far the biggest employer there and hundreds of thousands from the Catholic community are employed by it, meaning that any romantic ideals of unity face stark economic realities.
Taking on a country which relies so heavily on very high levels of government spending would, according to many studies, cost the average taxpayer in the Republic thousands of pounds a year, a reality which means support for it may be pretty fragile once figures are presented to the electorate there.

United Ireland could cost €20bn a year for 20 years, says new study
Irish unity would push up cost to taxpayers, IIEA report says
As I said, highly unlikely to happen in the lifetime of anyone posting on here today.