However, you are absolutely correct to say that he has probably gotten off lightly compared to the other England lads of that generation. And herein lies the rub, the man's management team have handled him superbly, according to the missus a lot of that has to do with Posh as she was/is very instrumental in how the media positively portrays him. So I can see why he can get negative comments on here because he is a PR dream but to a lot of football fans he is overhyped and overrated (and to some like myself, I happily admit he can do no wrong in my eyes!)
I disagree with this bit, the way Beckham has been treated by 'fans' during his international career has seen the biggest possible extremes of positive and negative.
After the World Cup in '98 he was blamed to the point of there being effigies of him being hanged. The abuse that he used to get both playing for Utd and on England duty for a couple of years was multiple times worse than any of the others got/get. He received as much blame as anyone at Euro 2000.
Then comes the Greece game on the way to the World Cup in '02 and a perfect media story of redemption. He's a national hero. Beckham is one of the few players to have a decent tournament, despite being injured in the build up which leads to the national becoming aware of what a metatarsal is.
2004 he again took as much blame as anyone else, particularly due to missing a penalty in the shootout. In 2006 general opinion was that he was past it, and that England needed pace through either Lennon or Wrigh-Philips. Eriksson was heavily criticised when he kept playing Beckham. After the tournament there were widespread calls for him to retire rather than be pushed.
Mclaren initially drops him, but is forced into a recall through a combination of injuries and desperation. By this point nobody has any expectations of Beckham, he comes in with a couple of cameos but England fail to qualify for Euro 2008. No real blame for him as he's supposedly past it.
Capello get's the job and openly admits that he picked him as someone that he had worked with before and for his leadership skills. Beckham isn't a first choice and made a lot of subs appearances. Injured on loan at Milan before the World Cup... England playing career over, but goes to the tournamnet as a celebrity cheerleader, and as an attempt to soften the players' dislike of Capello's tough regime.
Most football fans I know don't particularly like 'celebrity culture' and the way it's portrayed in the media - which is why Beckham gets criticism for his 'brand'. However, if looking purely at football I don't think he hasn't got off lightly at all.