If we had Defoe instead of Adebayor, he would have missed the penalty too. Both of them are brick at penalties. I don't understand how all 4 of Basel's penalties were excellent yet we are incapable of producing 4 of those over a whole season, let alone a single shoot-out.
Anyway, if Defoe had played instead of Adebayor we wouldn't have even made extra time, let alone penalties. Ade had a good game tonight, should have scored though. Ultimately his finishing will always hold him back, and if we get 4th we should look to upgrade upon him if we want to progress. But that doesn't preclude him from playing well.
The blind application of stereotypes however, does. Anyone who cannot recognise Adebayor's contribution tonight is a lost cause... as multiple people have already stated, he was one of our best players tonight.