Dont know what relevance mollycoddled children is to people who get help from their parents.
Personally I have had no help financially, and it meant fudge all when I graduated or started earning real money. I wasnt particularly happy that I spent my weekends as a 16 year old working in some poxy job saving up for when i did go to uni. Id much rather have had hand outs so that I could live a bit more or put extra effort into studying.
I went to Bath uni where as you can imagine, a lot did have rich parents funding their way. Its not the same as mollycoddling though and doesnt mean they didnt earn it. It just meant that their parents were able to help them cut out the poxy part time job and give them a helping hand in having a better life. Trust me they worked damn hard to get a degree - try explaining to your parents who gave you X amount of money as to why you failed. They have worked damn hard since leaving uni and have some top jobs. Parents funding uni is not the same as a rich parent funding a 50 year old man who never had a job etc. But these people I know with rich parents still do get handouts, help with mortgages etc but they still work hard, who cares if they didnt earn every penny themselves. Its natural for a parent to want to give their kids a better life, why struggle when there is no need, I doubt the guys on the end of the handouts really sit there and think "i didnt earn this, im not proud anymore".
Im in position where I will make sure I give my kids handouts, I wouldnt see them struggle when they do not have to. Infact the better they do, the more they will get. Get a 1st from Oxford ? you can have a 4 bed detached. Get a 3rd from Middlesex ? you get a 1 bed flat up north.
Would also like to point out, that while I dont see parents who can afford to helping out as a bad thing, I also dont see the current university charges as affordable and would like to see it lowered so that kids from poorer backgrounds are able to have a chance to one day become a rich parent funding their kids.
Personally I have had no help financially, and it meant fudge all when I graduated or started earning real money. I wasnt particularly happy that I spent my weekends as a 16 year old working in some poxy job saving up for when i did go to uni. Id much rather have had hand outs so that I could live a bit more or put extra effort into studying.
I went to Bath uni where as you can imagine, a lot did have rich parents funding their way. Its not the same as mollycoddling though and doesnt mean they didnt earn it. It just meant that their parents were able to help them cut out the poxy part time job and give them a helping hand in having a better life. Trust me they worked damn hard to get a degree - try explaining to your parents who gave you X amount of money as to why you failed. They have worked damn hard since leaving uni and have some top jobs. Parents funding uni is not the same as a rich parent funding a 50 year old man who never had a job etc. But these people I know with rich parents still do get handouts, help with mortgages etc but they still work hard, who cares if they didnt earn every penny themselves. Its natural for a parent to want to give their kids a better life, why struggle when there is no need, I doubt the guys on the end of the handouts really sit there and think "i didnt earn this, im not proud anymore".
Im in position where I will make sure I give my kids handouts, I wouldnt see them struggle when they do not have to. Infact the better they do, the more they will get. Get a 1st from Oxford ? you can have a 4 bed detached. Get a 3rd from Middlesex ? you get a 1 bed flat up north.
Would also like to point out, that while I dont see parents who can afford to helping out as a bad thing, I also dont see the current university charges as affordable and would like to see it lowered so that kids from poorer backgrounds are able to have a chance to one day become a rich parent funding their kids.
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