I've said similar before but I think you've hit on one of the big issues with politics, and perhaps even society in general there. Far too many people are completely unable to keep their expectations in line with the real world & environment.
This plays into something I said here a while back; public expectations are impossible. We cannot have "everything" we have to make choices. We lived as a society with the illusion that we could have -
guaranteed safety
wealth
a strong economy
without recognizing that three into two won't go. One of those simply cannot happen. It is impossible.
But we rode that horse for what, an escalating decade up to this point. We "might" have got away with it if the sudden burst of narcissistic populist arseholes hadn't found a connection with an increasingly greedy and self-interested society (I still blame Farage and 2016 Brexit for Trump and the rise of ignorance politics and leadership).
However, as you reiterated, we must now keep our expectations real.
We made this bed, so we will have to sleep in it.
Which one of the above three points gets sacrificed? And to what end?
I vote for understanding that public safety cannot be guaranteed.
Does that mean I advocate commerce over science? Absolutely not. I believe a common-sense slow phasing back is both inevitable and necessary for many aspects of not just our fiscal, but our mental health. However we could certainly divert some funds from our excessive defense budgets to go to health and welfare areas; that would allow proper preparation, and structure, to be built to deal with a society which WILL be living WITH covid19 (it is not something you "beat" per se).
Let's face it, in the US nobody is talking about how much wasted money is going into Trump's insane "space force program"!!!