Wow.
This is a balls-out post for sure, you're going for it.
I will try, as I often did during his tenure here (yup, I'm doubtless one of the 'light-out-of-arsers'
) to explain why he was so popular.
1) he brought the club together on and off the pitch
2) he hugely over-achieved
3) he over-achieved whilst the club were 'homeless' for nearly two seasons
4) he never EVER spoke ill of the supporters or talked down to the club. In fact, he spoke UP about the club, always amplifying us.
Jose? Come on. You're even going to mention that mercenary dingdong in the same breath? There is no comparison. Yes, he won loads of trophies in his prime, but he lied to get our job. Obviously. Because despite telling Capt Gullible and his Merry Henchperson that he could 'do much better' with that squad, he didn't. He fudged it. Crashed out of the CL. Injuries? Hahaha. Pochettino got us (somehow) to a CL Final without Kane for ages, ditto crawled over the line into top 4 without Kane, something Mourinho could not do WITH Kane fit. He (IMO) was an arrogant trumper mate, who turned on people and threw people under the bus when he saw he couldn't work within our parameters. I do sympathize with him working in a pandemic, what I would say is we absolutely should've made top 4 regardless by his own definition.
Conte? I was delighted when he came in and loved his work last season. This season he has stalemated. I was one of the few to give him huge slack in Oct/Nov, saying that he had lost (in Ventrone) his consiglieri, and that the loss would be destabilizing. I further speculated that he might have been questioning being away from family. His return post-World Cup showed some sides of him I was (naively?) unprepared for, most notably the ludicrous decision not to listen to doctors. he tried to come back ill, which has to affect the club. Tactically, his refusal to flex from 3-4-3 became very frustrating. Squad-wise, whilst I do not believe he was supported in the way HE expected it, he again said he was very happy with the squad, so on face-value it is his squad mismanagement which has cause cup exists. His situation is complicated for sure, but I'd say when you criticize fans for lack of patience despite not even considering potential ink on an extension, you are engaging in a higher level of hypocrisy than I am comfortable with. Between that and saying his 'success' has proven a 'disadvantage' in this job due to expectations (at 15 mill a year) and it is clear the dance is done and we are all treading water, hoping he does his one game a week winning job and gets us over the line into the CL again.
As for Poch return? My heart would love it, my head agrees that with the current structure it would be the wrong move as it would end in tears.
Offered in the interests of counter-point discussion mate. Hope all's well.