The United game didn't especially bother me, they are poor and they only got back in the game due to literal school boy errors. My complaints would have been about how we reacted to the pressure. Could we play out? Get around their press? Maybe even calm the game down a bit? We almost collapsed, United were beating down our door whereas that wasn't the case for us in either the Liverpool or Everton games. We got fisted up by both and after the game was dead for them we got a few goals, ok great it doesn't really tell the story of the match.
For me, saying we don't get beaten often by lots of goals is kind of moot. The problem is we usually concede first so we are always chasing the game, we have to fight to even just get back to even, which tends to create even more counter opportunities. Momentum is so important in matches and we haven't been able manage momentum swings in games.