I feel let down by parliament in general but yes I blame the Tories more because ultimately they've been in power since the referendum and haven't been able to deliver it.
If you take the point that brexit actually doesn't deliver much to most people*, how can you deliver a positive Brexit? You promised it would be a good thing. This is the crux of the delays we've seen. That is why the ERG didn't back Mays deal, because it wasn't good for the UK.
*a few will find ways to use brexit to their advantage, brexit is a highly complex thing and with change there are opportunities, normally for the rich. The only Tory 'light at the end of the tunnel' is that we could get rid of things that protect non-wealthy people, so a few people can make more money.
We have discussed this before but you ignore everyones responses, I've always said I don't hate everything about the EU - it does lots of good things but that doesn't mean everything it does is good. And as to what I believe in well I believe that decision making rests with the people and whilst we're members of the EU it no longer rests with the people. You've said before that you believe it provides a good safety net but my belief is that the safety net is provided by the British people as in if we don't like something the government does we wait a maximum of 5 years and boot them out and if the people want it everything implemented previously can be changed in a matter of weeks. The country is generally liberal and diverse enough that nothing extreme bar the odd thing here and there will be tolerated and if they try it and it's that controversial it will either fail due to a few rebels or it will be repealed enough. Take climate change if the people think it to be an important issue and it seems they do then it will get the prominence it needs and will become a cuicial issue in an election campaign and who wins can implement it, we don't need the EU to decide our climate policy. Same thing with workers rights etc.
I take your points and totally get your rationale. The UK should control its own laws. And actually we do. The important ones. There are some laws, mostly around trade and environmental issues we don't control. But I'd ask you to tell me which EU laws you don't like. Those that affect you negatively. Stopping pollution across a continent, making sure factory workers have (some level of) parity across a whole market are necessities to allow fair and free trade, that don't really hurt you or I. In fact they might protect us.
What you're telling me is the setup in the UK is pretty good. There are things we can change, there is poverty, frustrations etc. But we control these things now. Not the EU. We've benefited from the EU, not lost from it. Pre-EU the UK was in a shocking state with a 3 day week, power cuts etc. Do we really want to impair our economy by leaving so we can set our own factory emissions limits? In the detail brexit is irrational.
I hate to point it out, but all you've said in reply to what is the light at the end of the tunnel is that making our own trade agreements will be good, positive, which is highly debatable. And we want to be able to make laws that we didn't even notice. If we did you'd name the ones that bother you so much.
Again I've said before many things about the EU could be tolerated but things like the Lisbon treaty have slowly degenerated it, if it had remained with the original aims of a trading block which 99% of people were happy with then we wouldn't be having this conversation. Why does the EU get to have power over what budget deficit we run for instance? Then you look at the democracy of it, how does the UK propose an EU law for the UK, answer is it can't - it can only propose a law that benefits a majority of member states which as it grows and grows becomes more and more difficult. How do we hold the EU commission to account? How is the EU dealing with topical issues e.g. how does freedom of movement square with climate change
Errr when has the EU stopped us running a budget deficit? If you referring to Greece, the EU was bailing out the Greek economy so it would have a say in how it spent money (it didn't have).
The UK can propose EU laws that benefit the UK (and we have done a plenty especially around fiance and pharmaceuticals both EU regulators were based in London) . But lets be clear the vast majority of laws in European nations are controlled by the sovereign nation - not by the EU. There are only certain things that relate to trade or the environment that the EU covers. And it works both ways, other EU nations can't get laws through that don't benefit all other nations - that is the balance and protection! Why would you want to change that? If something does not work for us and everyone it's not getting implemented. Universal phone roaming across Europe - anyone have a problem with it in Germany...in the UK...in Greece....nope, and the law can pass. It is a fantastic protection, that should means EU laws are highly filtered and positive. The fact that you can't identify an EU law that affects you negatively shows that it really aint bad.
I don't know, how does FoM square with climate change? I think the relevant point here is, to affect global change - which is what you need to make positive updates to how we live within this world - then you have a much better chance with supernational powers. The UK will not affect China. Or be able to work with the US and set a prescident for the world. The EU can. And it can do it so it is fair on its members who it has to put first.
The EU is essentially boring. It deals with international laws, trade details etc etc. It has a terrible rep here (for reasons we've looked before re. reporting of it being dull unless you make it funny and negative). But the reality is, it is first and foremost a customs union. It is the most affluent free trade area in the world. Its government is the size of Birmingham council, taking a disproportionate number of people from the UK who help run it - in our national language. It saves the UK money, it does a lot of boring stuff we don't have to, and allows us to trade more freely.
Boris when considering whether to back Camron or go awol anti-EU, wrote a piece weighing up both sides. Its easy to find online. He actually thought that UK companies had more potential to exploit the EU market. And we do. We are a good trading nation, but we could be better. And we should be. We need a leader - dare I say it - like Boris who can shake things up, refresh politics, stop the same old cliches, and actually make real things happen. But that doesn't need to be whilst chopping off our free trade, and damaging our economy.
Anyhooo, I probably owe you a beer for the grief and reading the longest post I've ever written on here. The devil is in the detail. Those selling you crap don't want you to know the detail.