Overdue congratulations! I’m in a somewhat similar position albeit no children. Got married last year and my wife is always itching to see me when I get home and I wonder what I’m doing schlepping to places like Sheffield on a Wednesday night and Leicester on a weekend when we were seeing family, let alone going to the north London derby and not getting home till half 8 on a Sunday night. I feel us men do need an outlet and while football is great at times, it’s a massive time waster and it eats into family time a little bit too much for me these days.
Thanks mate, congrats/commiserations to you to… been with the mrs long enough now that she’s happy enough to see the back of me for a day were it not for the fact she’s left holding fort with the little one - made it known early doors in the relationship that football was my thing so she respects that - but yeah hard to justify it to myself atm, funny thinking back that my Dad must have been gone most weekends during the football season when I was a young un and to the away European games all the time