I find this a weird narrative.
I've been a game going fan since 86/87.
What I have done through the decades is exactly the same. Paid my money for a ticket (or on the turnstile) entered the ground and had fun/a laugh/delirium/excitement/sadness/misery/heartbreak delete as appropriate.
The way the club 'treats' me has very little to do with whichever of those outcomes come to pass on a match day.
How wounded can one be if they have a client reference number? Would a fan number be better? Am I upset that chirpy is no longer up to mischief on matchdays?
A ST or member relationship with the club has been pretty much what it is now ie a pack thru the door every year.
What else are you hoping for in this area?
Prices have in relative terms risen. But it safe to say so have the costs for the club. The costs we are always on the back of the club to pay.
I'd suggest a greater reason for disillusionment with going, and dis-attachment are those around you. The mindset is based in negativity and moaning (in the main).
The club structured the stadium to give us an amazing single tier 'home stand' , and what do we do with it?
I watch so many games from abroad (and I'm not sure if this is an English fan problem, not just Spurs) where the supporters are fully bought in, visually ,sonically and emotionally.