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Dating sites...

P.D. said:
Activity date? Mate why dont you just invite her round yours for dinner. If theres no chemistry theres no point wasting time, get right down to it.

What site are you meeting these hotties off?
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This one was PoF - and she was very attractive and very normal and sane. She had a great job etc I think there is chemistry but not enough and the reason being I never acted myself for the first couple of hours.

There must have been enough for her to stay for over six hours. I just think the sexual side of things wasnt there until later.

I would say the first meeting isnt a date but a meet up - I wanna take her out again but something more fun than just sittin at a bar drinkin ****tails. Firstly I haven moved out yet although in the process of doin so so I cant really cook for her. Its funny because we were talking about future dates and what we would cook for each other (its generally my tactic I suppose).

I will see her again but as friends or a date I dont know.
 
Quick question

You are dating a girl - no discussion of exclusivity but you know youre dating - sleeping together, hanging out etc. No label as of yet and well... just dating - its been a month.

Is it cheating if you date another girl?
 
hmmm no I dont think so mate. No label, you havent mentioned you are going out. I am seeing a bird, but we are not bf /gf and im going out on a date on Wednesday with another lady, fudge I went out with her last monday, then i banged this bird im seeing on Thursday. We are seeing each other, not an item. I think you are good to date another girl.
 
GinolaGinolaGinola said:
hmmm no I dont think so mate. No label, you havent mentioned you are going out. I am seeing a bird, but we are not bf /gf and im going out on a date on Wednesday with another lady, fudge I went out with her last monday, then i banged this bird im seeing on Thursday. We are seeing each other, not an item. I think you are good to date another girl.
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Thats what I think and am going out with a girl on a second date this sat whilst the other one is in Geordie land. No label though like you say. Maybe its implied this 'label'

This other girl is way hotter and taller like 5ft11 and a mocha colour really light. Stunning - punching WAY above my weight with this one haha.

Some may see it as not in the 'spirit' of things
 
DHSF I think you are ok. If she's hotter and you are punching above then certainly go ahead.

This girl I'm taking out tomorrow night is probably the same but much fitter than the girl I was seeing.

Which brings me onto my question.

Where should I take her? No not up the....

I'm trying to play it massively cool and start off as mates. We went for dinner last Monday where neither of us drunk but tomorrow I suggested we both drink.

I'm either thinking dinner and drinks in a bar or go the other way and maybe go bowling and drinks then a bar???
 
GinolaGinolaGinola said:
DHSF I think you are ok. If she's hotter and you are punching above then certainly go ahead.

This girl I'm taking out tomorrow night is probably the same but much fitter than the girl I was seeing.

Which brings me onto my question.

Where should I take her? No not up the....

I'm trying to play it massively cool and start off as mates. We went for dinner last Monday where neither of us drunk but tomorrow I suggested we both drink.

I'm either thinking dinner and drinks in a bar or go the other way and maybe go bowling and drinks then a bar???
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Bowling and bar is great - All Star Lanes or Bloomsbury.

Im taking this new girl to the zoo as we have already been out for ****tails on sat and she couldnt stop talkin about animals - I think she is into bestiality
 
No this lady tomorrow isnt from a dating site, Ive just linked my dating to this thread. However, I have been on 3 dates from dating sites, andf this girl I had been banging of late was from one, so it can be easier yes to message 200+ birds which is basically what I have done. I potentially have about 5 dates lined up but I always forget about them.

DHSF, Im thinking bowling too, but we are both Chelmsford based, albeit I work in the City so cant ask her to come up to London. Going to try and go bowling in Chelmsford, have some drinks whilst doing so then go back into town to a bar and get kinky... well thats the idea.
 
GinolaGinolaGinola said:
No this lady tomorrow isnt from a dating site, Ive just linked my dating to this thread. However, I have been on 3 dates from dating sites, andf this girl I had been banging of late was from one, so it can be easier yes to message 200+ birds which is basically what I have done. I potentially have about 5 dates lined up but I always forget about them.

DHSF, Im thinking bowling too, but we are both Chelmsford based, albeit I work in the City so cant ask her to come up to London. Going to try and go bowling in Chelmsford, have some drinks whilst doing so then go back into town to a bar and get kinky... well thats the idea.
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Man... Is that the scattergun approach lol?
I'm so fussy I'd have a job narrowing it down to a 1 or 2 possibilities haha
 
The two I'm dating aren't - I find it a far tougher task to get girls online as I'm not exactly the best lookin guy out there. I find it easier in person as I can chat to girls etc
 
dingdongo said:
Man... Is that the scattergun approach lol?
I'm so fussy I'd have a job narrowing it down to a 1 or 2 possibilities haha
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yes but it backfires as I have messaged girls that are mates and actually pulled a bird who lived directly opposite her mate in a block of flats....

plus it gets boring having to say the same response after you have asked them why they are on the site.
 
GinolaGinolaGinola said:
yes but it backfires as I have messaged girls that are mates and actually pulled a bird who lived directly opposite her mate in a block of flats....

plus it gets boring having to say the same response after you have asked them why they are on the site.
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What's your opening message? Do you have a generic cheesey chat up line.. or do you get bored and vary your approach lol
 
generic cheesy message as follows:

Hey, how are you doing?
I have to say that your pictures are lovely, you are stunning!
So how come you are on here then?!
Maybe chat soon
Cx

sometimes change it around, but thats mainly it.... fromage
 
GinolaGinolaGinola said:
generic cheesy message as follows:

Hey, how are you doing?
I have to say that your pictures are lovely, you are stunning!
So how come you are on here then?!
Maybe chat soon
Cx

sometimes change it around, but thats mainly it.... fromage
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I'm not really casanova but dude that's pretty poor haha
 
DHSF said:
Quick question

You are dating a girl - no discussion of exclusivity but you know youre dating - sleeping together, hanging out etc. No label as of yet and well... just dating - its been a month.

Is it cheating if you date another girl?
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The fact that your asking tells all.


If the girls find out they will see it as cheating and you know it. You just want someone to say it's ok. :p
 
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