Superhudd
Simon Davies
Nigel - take your daughter out to Nando's and see how your wife reacts
If she is cool, cool
If she goes mental again, bin her off
Thing is though.. why not tell the wife to be that
1. Your taking daughter to nando's
2. Ask her to come as well
Why would you want to exclude her? Surely you want her to be as fond and loving as you are towards the daughter, they are a couple afterall. IMO if you don't want her to come too, the least you can do is #1.