Two key things for me are 1. Making a distinction between Islamists and Muslims, and to be explicit about it. Not sure those in the West and Israel always do make this distinction clear enough. And indeed those supporting Palestine could also do more to condemn Islamists and ensure their support is clearly aimed at non-Islamists. Here's more of an overview
https://www.washingtoninstitute.org/policy-analysis/muslims-vs-islamists
2. Martin Luther King's point is so pertinent.
Hate begets hate - globally
. Violence begets more violence. You can kill the liar but not the lie. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Violence_begets_violence
I appreciate that Israel, a democratic state, has to do something after such a massive massacre of its people. Yet there is no solution at the end of it. Just more hate and entrenched sides. It is the wrong long-term approach. Yet what would you do after so many people had been slaughtered by a quasi-state right next to you?
Hate begets hate; violence begets violence; toughness begets a greater toughness. We must meet the forces of hate with the power of love... Our aim must never be to defeat or humiliate the white man, but to win his friendship and understanding.
The ultimate weakness of violence is that it is a descending spiral begetting the very thing it seeks to destroy, instead of diminishing evil, it multiplies it. Through violence you may murder the liar, but you cannot murder the lie, nor establish the truth. Through violence you may murder the hater, but you do not murder hate. In fact, violence merely increases hate. Returning violence for violence multiplies violence, adding deeper darkness to a night already devoid of stars. Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that