Fair enough, I get your veiwpoint, but I think you're still stating your own suppositions as fact and not taking on board the flip-side.
Let's be honest, there's not a lot of 'neutral' fans out there - we all have our own (often irrational) likes & dislikes outside of the team we support and in my experience Spurs are very much a polarising club for non-Spurs fans - especially over the last few years when we've stepped it up - and from what I've seen and read I would say that there's a lot of opposing fans that can't stand us. Not necessarily because we as fans think we are bigger than we actually are (although there's more than a few fans out there that do, obviously), but for a multitude of reasons and ultimately they will mostly have their own reasons and agendas. Doesn't always make their views right, though, IMO, 'cos us football fans are brilliant at talking brick regardless of what top we wear on match day!!
The confusing point for me from your last post is that from what I remember no-one in this thread that has disagreed with your comments has actually been overly Spurs-biased or arrogant yet we have a Spurs fan saying that Spurs fans are arrogant for even thinking that they could compete for such players.
Bonkers.
If we were discussing, say, Ronaldo, Neymar or Griezmann and posters on here were saying we should be trying to compete for their signatures then I would be inclined to agree with you but the counter point has been made again and again in regards to Sessegnon (and young players of that ilk in general) and there's no denying that our recent history of signing and developing them backs that up, IMO, and doesn't sound arrogant (or whatever noun you want to use) to me.
Ramble over!!