I know what you mean. Not VAR in itself, but the biased way it is implemented. Yes it catches some incidents it should and misses some it shouldn't, but it really highlights the inconsequential way it's used while wasting lots and lots of time. Little if anything has gotten better overall, just more visible and even more annoying. The same teams gets freebies and the same teams get shafted.
But the real problem for me is the institutionalized cheating. You simply cannot get by today without cheating. A Norwegian player got bumped hard today and remained on the deck, while the ref let the play go on. The aftermath was VAR shoulda coulda, but I'll have to admit that part of me thought "you'll reap what you sow". Nothing towards this particular player, but the sport itself. Even commentators acknowledge and often praise cheating as "part of the game", "clever", "smart to fall easily" etc. If you cry wolf enough times and play dead after being brushed, the play will continue while someone is really really hurt. It will be a part of the game too, they players has set themselves up for it, and I won't feel QUITE as bad for them as if they were real men.