Critically, you are honest about your choices and appear to squarely accept their consequences whether good or bad. No-one could reasonably complain about that, though I personally hope your work/life balance can swing more towards the latter (even though it was genuinely none of my business). Compare what you have said about yourself to the PATHETIC "interview" Elon Musk recently gave to the NYT, where he blathered on about difficulties and stress and pressure and tweets and ambien and woe-was-him. Pathetic! I have ZERO sympathy for him! He made his choices and apparently they aren't working for him. Which is not the issue - the issue is how everyone should feel sorry for him! The numpty!
I will say that I think the pay/pay rises CEOs have been receiving in the last two decades or so have become so obscene that they are almost beyond rational commentary or judgement. There is an enormous issue with wealth disparity, although I would argue that this mirrors the plummet in quality of public education. The worse our public education system has become, the greater the wealth disparity. We laugh at chavs, but unfortunately chavs are the direct result of an under-educated class being told that "wealth is health" and subsequently trying to appease themselves by wearing cheap accouterments of "tangible wealth" thus continuing to place inordinate amounts of "worth" in stupid, needless things. This does, I admit, make it harder to find smart, talented people from lower down a company's ranks and nurture them to a top position due to the increase in an under-educated public, but if they wanted to, companies/CEOs could commit to doing so.
I have long said that the biggest weapons used in class war divides are education and health. Under-educate and lessen access to great health-care, and you create a whole swathe of people whose primary aim becomes daily survival rather than smart, personal growth and expansive thought. This started a few decades ago and we are seeing it's rise worldwide in populism, where a load of basically under-educated (through no fault of their own!) people are making rash decisions based on "memes" and "tweets"...it is a sad time.