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Night out openers

Random questions are the best.

I say hello and then ask somethin like "What super power would you choose if you could choose one" or "What cartoon character would best describe you"

It just opens things up. A line like "you fell from heaven blah blah blah" just means they will say "Thanks" and doesnt encourage any type of flirty discussion.
 
Looks like its meant to be a 'neg', giving a compliment which is twisted as a put down. Far easier to chat to a woman, then tell her that she's not your usual type and let it play from there.
 
spurspinter1 said:
I'm not really a line guy and I've been in a very happy relationship for a while now, but when out with single folks you'd be amazed by how many actually enjoyable conversations can be struck up by asking random questions, and I guess if you're single and wanting to make more of it then you've already got an in. brick like asking a girl what their favourite star wars film is, 1. It instantly gives off the impression you don't take yourself too seriously 2. Star Wars is amazing, therefore is good to talk about 3. Their answer is an efficient filtering device, ie if the say the Phantom Menace then you can move on without having invested tooooo much time.....

I guess the success depends where you are and the type of people are there etc etc
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There's a difference between random questions and lines - the latter are pretty cheesy and make most people look sad. Making one up on the spot once you get talking to someone can be quite funny. I pulled this girl a few weeks back and were daring each other to go up to random girls/blokes and use a cheesy chat up line, was a good laugh.

A compliment can go a long way, usually I'll only talk to someone if I get 'the look' twice, then at least I know that they're interested
 
From ze internetz

1. Do you believe in love at first sight, or should I walk by again?
2. Apart from being beautiful, what do you do for a living?
3. Shall we talk or continue flirting from a distance?
4. Nice dress, it’d look good on my bedroom floor.
5. I miss my teddy bear. Would you sleep with me?
6. Did it hurt when you fell out of heaven?
7. Do you believe in helping the homeless? If yes, take me home with you.
8. If I told you that you had a nice body, would you hold it against me?
9. Do you mind if I stare at you up close instead of from across the room?
10. Hi, I just wanted to give you the satisfaction of turning me down. Go ahead, say no.
11. I seem to have lost my number, can I have yours instead?
12. Is it hot in here or is it just you?
13. I have had a really bad day and it always makes me feel better to see a pretty girl smile. So, would you smile for me?
14. There must be something wrong with my eyes, I can’t take them off you.
15. I suffer from amnesia. Do I come here often?
 
Superhudd said:
From ze internetz

13. I have had a really bad day and it always makes me feel better to see a pretty girl smile. So, would you smile for me?
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Some of the worst those (or most cliched), but I think that one might be a winner. Fortunately I was always handsome as a young man so could get away with any old crap alot of the time.

Apparently I said to my wife (the first night we met) 'I bet you still look beautiful in the morning', she said it was cringeworthy, but I was tinkled and can't really remember saying it, but think I meant that I'd think she was beautiful even if I wasn't tinkled!
 
The smile is always a killer, sometimes I've seen a girl smile at me then went over and said something like 'After seeing your smile I had to walk over and talk to you (she'll smile again), my name's James by the way...' then you're in!
 
I would just say " hi, I noticed you when I came in, I just wanted to come and see what u are like.

That way they feel a bit special that u noticed them. Then they have to sell themselves to you. They don't realise they are doing it.
 
Gordinho said:
You do realise that by the time you've plucked up courage to approach a girl she's already decided whether she'll sleep with you or not don't you?
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I dont think thats too true. I have swayed girls before (and yes without rhypnol and suffocating them etc). I guess the difference is that those girls were in the social circle so to speak rather than picked up in a bar.
 
Gordinho said:
You do realise that by the time you've plucked up courage to approach a girl she's already decided whether she'll sleep with you or not don't you?
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Hmm... do you know what kind of distance you have to be from them because I reckon I could strike an attractive pose from a distance and then they'd already be decided. It's not like women change their mind or anything is it?...
 
DHSF said:
I dont think thats too true. I have swayed girls before (and yes without rhypnol and suffocating them etc). I guess the difference is that those girls were in the social circle so to speak rather than picked up in a bar.
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So you don't use the chloroform line then? 8-[

I agree that I think this is wrong, let's face it, if you looked amazing and went over to a woman but acted like a dingdong, she isn't going to sleep with you. If instead, you look ok and head over to chat with them, tease them a bit, have a bit of fun banter and chat and then progress things then you are more likely to be successful and this will over turn any defence that she has that she doesn't want to sleep with you... if you do it right.
 
An old one for me used to ask them their favourite colour they say it then you go 'I always ask what someones favourite colour the first time I meet them, it can tell you alot about people' they are usually intrigued and ask what it's said about her and hey presto if you can navigate that minefield and make her laugh you've started a conversation and that's all you really need :) I'm not the best looking but, it works if you can be a bit charismatic with that sorta thing.
 
JellySpur said:
Hmm... do you know what kind of distance you have to be from them because I reckon I could strike an attractive pose from a distance and then they'd already be decided. It's not like women change their mind or anything is it?...
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Not something I've thought about too much, I usually sit in the corner and lick my own forehead, they come to me. :)
 
DHSF said:
I dont think thats too true. I have swayed girls before (and yes without rhypnol and suffocating them etc). I guess the difference is that those girls were in the social circle so to speak rather than picked up in a bar.
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Valid point. The social circle is a constantly shifting dynamic.
 
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