braineclipse
Steve Sedgley
As always a pleasure chatting with you mate. No idea if Steff agrees with me. But quite a few of his opinions mirror mine so I chimed in...Interesting post as ever mate, I wonder if Steff agrees with your understanding of his points.
Absolutely agree on the relative success of Ange and there are different expectations given the circumstances of the club.
I don't think anyone could argue that we've made progress in terms of a league position (8th to 4th) but also played a style of football that is more what most would consider what we want from a Spurs team. I'm also in favour of signing younger players moving forwards (but also not a fan of the preloaded excuse of "well they're going players what can we expect" if everything falls to brick season after season).
What I will say as I hope I'm not coming off as a bit snipey (not a real word in English but hope it makes sense) to Steff as it may seem like I'm trying to use his words against him. It's easy to sit there listening to someone providing content week in week out and cherry pick details you don't agree with / that may conflict with something said that stood out from literally over a year ago.
Despite it being a relatively good season including bringing the fan base on board I'm feeling rather disconnected with the club and possibly disillusioned, whether it's misplaced entitlement it's not for me to say. But watching Utd lift the FA Cup having had 5 below average seasons and their fans described as "going through such a hard time", it was a bit of a sickener. Plus if I were to have a trip down to London, get some beers in, match ticket and accommodation I think that would genuinely amount to what I have to live on for a month. So instead I'm watching bricky streams if we're not on telly which just isn't actually fun or rewarding. Plus, call me a pessimistic but I just think the glass ceiling is there, if you'd have spoken to the 18 year old me blown away by Redknapp's teams and said "this is as good as it's going to get, the odd CL qualification" I wouldn't have stopped supporting but however you look at it, it's disappointing. So where Steff (can't @ him for some reason) is possibly more geared towards positivity I'm just a bit more negatively inclined / jaded I guess? It's not all about winning obviously, but we definitely don't deserve to have won anything either (imo of course). Do I truly think that Ange is the man to change us in to an actual top level team? I just think he'll make it a bit more bearable to watch for the most part, maybe to some that'll sound miserable or entitled as if I think I (or the fan base as a whole) deserve more, I appreciate nothing is promised.
Making out like Ange has reinvented the wheel whilst discrediting former managers who did better initially seems off. Continho is a great portmanteau btw mate, not sure if you came up with that but if so, props where they're due!
Not going to go full on gutterboy but I think following my local league 1 team in terms of real life experiences and community may be more rewarding, rather than the constant bitterness / at the likes of the cities / Chelsea's doing it the wrong way and United just winning stuff despite how brick they supposedly are. It's a big part of top level football I guess, some can look at Arsenal and laugh at them being "bottlers" rather than thinking about how we're miles off them and despite that they weren't good enough to do anything truly impressive...
Edit - Not sure how this will sound as it's not necessarily up to me to question the validity of people's feelings, but I think it's easier to deal with the lack of bonafide success if you turn Continho in to bogeymen and lay the blame on their feet. There's no divine right to the bonafide success anyway of course, however it's a club so close to the precipice but just never quite making it, depending on what metric you go by of course.
Your post went on a bit of a tangent, but definitely not in a bad way. I'll go on my own tangent in response, hope that's fine. But yes, I'm certain I've been inconsistent. I'm certain I've been too positive about all of our managers at some point and loads of our players.
I think I get what you're saying. Been feeling some of the same over the years. Easy to get disillusioned, jaded, apathetic and frustrated with both football and Spurs. The insane money in it and the cost to support. The corruption, the financially doped clubs, VAR. The list is endless. In our position we don't even get the joy of an occasional promotion (after the disappointment of relegation of course).
If I'm to get joy from this with any frequency there has to be joy about the process. About what's going on now. From the manager to the latest Porro shot, VdV recovery run, Richarlison chicken dance or Romero tackle. From the hope that maybe this time we will take another step up.
A friend of mine who was as into football as me, supporting a different team, just stepped away some years ago. Still hopes they win/do well, but doesn't follow any of it really. Just wasn't worth the time and money, other stuff that could fill that time in his life. The negatives outshone the positives too much. He wasn't a casual fan either, proper fan. I've thought about the same, but decided against it, so far at least.
Speaking for me personally I try to enjoy what I can, take the positives and try not to let the negatives bother me too much. I'd rather be overly optimistic about Mikey Moore and live with the disappointment if that's the case. I'd rather err on the side of being too positive about what's currently going on. Enjoying the games is out of my control really, but Ange makes me enjoy more of them, that's part of the reason why I like him. I try to let football be a positive part of my life, for me that's only possible if I care and with that comes disappointment at times, but I can live with that. With hope comes disappointment, but the antithesis to hope and belief is apathy and then I may as well quit following this cursed game. I enjoy conversations on here and with friends so when life affords me time for it I do it.
Again I have no idea if Steff agrees with me, I'm obviously not speaking for him.
I'm aware that my attempts to focus on the positives will probably lead to some of my opinions being inconsistent over time. I have inconsistent opinions anyway as do most people. Certainly most football fans on the topic of football. I'll be wrong on plenty of stuff anyway. I'd rather buy in on Ange a bit more than I should.
Perhaps that leads to me being overly harsh on Poch or Continho sometimes (I think I came up with it, but I actually don't know, can't actively remember reading it elsewhere). fudge it, they were paid a lot of money to be here, Poch joined Chelsea, I'm a fan, they don't read my posts, it's fine. I wouldn't want to be dismissive or completely unfair and appreciate if someone calls me out on that. Particularly on Poch because I do really appreciate what he did for us.
I try to be objective when I write stuff on here, not be coloured too much by trying to get joy out of a deeply flawed ugly beautiful game. But I'm sure I get that wrong too sometimes. I am aware and can handle being called out on it if someone thinks so.
Next season we'll again play the way we want to. Hopefully we'll see a lot of the small things that can make football fun, way more than with some of our recent managers. And there's at least some reasonable hope that we'll push on. That's enough to make me optimistic, perhaps even overly optimistic. That's a good feeling from football, I like feeling good and I like football.
If someone read all of that, sorry about the wall of text, hope I didn't waste your time.