No, that's not the bit that people are picking at. You're right in that being pressed or being afforded the ball against a ten-man defense makes us struggle - but where you're sort of slipping up (imo) is suggesting that we're a *very* good side despite this. Fact is, we can't just look good against average sides or sides incapable of sitting deep/pressing and then call ourselves *very* good - the higher up we go, the more sides we encounter capable of pressing us to extinction or sitting deep and boring us into submission. We got a taste of that in the CL, when Leverkusen (ninth in the Bundesliga at the time of writing, I believe - floundering in mid-table) relentlessly dominated us across both games, and Monaco just did away with us as casually as they would a bottom-of-the-table Ligue 1 side.
If such approaches leave us floundering, then what does it say about our true quality when a mid-table Bundesliga side and a Ligue 1 outfit can use them to dominate us? Surely we can't delude ourselves into thinking we're world beaters because we put away the Middlesbroughs and Watfords of this world.
There's an argument in there somewhere that supports your assertion, as I said. Our wins against Chelsea and City at home were masterpieces, and worthy of a great deal of admiration - and consideration in your view of how we do against sides that press or sit deep. But I'm not sure you've hit upon it just yet.