Financially we also have other assets of which a vast number of have stated respect for adebayor, we are protecting our collective assets. We are also putting to bed this image of us created by modric and bales agents with the whole "they're making me stay but I don't want to, they're inhuman" thing.
It's embarrassing for the club but I feel we're dealing with it appropriately, if a suitor comes forward with an acceptable offer then by all means put that on the table for the player but don't just hang him out to dry. What message does that send out to other players, especially the west Africans. Players know we can be no pushovers if we want to be, what's wrong with supporting a person? If it benefits him then his market value will be improved anyway!!
In that kind of environment everyone loves a clown - that's not conducive to a professional atmosphere though. Players may initially be unhappy about selling him but that won't last - probably won't last past the next pay cheque.
I don't think it's necessarily embarrassing for the club, it's just a waste of our money and a bad example that people can let their disruptive home lives damage their performance at work.