thfcsteff
Garth Crooks
I agree Steff.
Whilst I still dislike him, I don't hate the guy like I used to. As you said, it's not healthy to hold on to hate like that.
Interesting how you described Campbell. Any chance all the abuse he got actually hurt him deep down? By the way, I think some of it went too far and beyond "football banter/hatred".
I actually dislike Thierry Henry far more, I know I'm in the minority on that one. He has always gone out of his way to have digs at us. I remember once he questioned why we celebrated when we equalised against them the day they won the league. What did he want us to do? Not celebrate the goal "yea.. oh, hang on a minute, Thierry says were not allowed to celebrate."
I met him a few times...friend of mine was playing for us at the time, so I went to training/would sit in the west stand when back, etc...he was always uncomfortable and awkward, shy even. Very polite and very decent to my son, a wee lad at the time...I was shocked and angry when he left, but knowing a few things about the GGG era, I'd say there was never 'quite' the 'commitment' from the manager then that maybe there would've been from Hoddle? By the time Glenn came in he'd already made his mind up I was told after the fact (though I should say no-one knew where he was going and that DID cause some shock even within) but sadly, the players are not ever as invested as we are. So my hatred for him was one of being really really hurt by his duplicitousness, but long-term hate? Nah, not really. I don't hold it for anyone really, not even GGG who's about as close as I can get if pushed.
Yeah, agree on Henry, a tosser for sure and his sprint of 90 yards to knee-slide in front our corner at scumbury will never be forgotten, but even there I cannot summon the hatred.
I find that I hate the goons when we play them and generally despise them all the time, but I have gooner mates and I have found as life has gone on, with real issues, real lives, real deaths, real crimes, real tragedies, that I just don't hate like that any more. In fact, of all of them over the years I probably felt more cheated by the last manager than any of them, simply because he wouldn't accept any responsibilities, but that's MY thing, I understand that.
I don't hold the deep-rooted hatred of Campbell against anyone per se, I just don't have that in me anymore and don't even feel it anymore. Again, whenever I see him (post derby on MOTD for example) I find myself looking at him with curiosity trying to figure out what's wrong with him!