It would appear so.
Furthermore, if that is Toby speaking from the heart or thinking out loud perhaps Poch has had similar casual or formal conversations with him and has come to the conclusion, that although Toby is professional, that his heart may not be in it, especially to the levels Poch and in particular WE need now to go those last few steps.
Cynically maybe Toby is looking to secure that bumper pay day on a five year deal, where he may be good for a couple of seasons and then tail off as his desire to be with family etc increases.
And of course this wont happen on Pocch's watch.
I dont think so, Toby always looks very focused and concentrated when playing to me. Doesn't seem like someone who doesn't give his all in both training and on the pitch. Obviously anyone can have a bad game but that's different, he seems a very powerful dominating presence to me when he plays.