You are mixing up hate for him as a footballer to my hate for him as a person. He is a talented footballer when he can be bothered to be. But 90% of my vitriol towards Ade is because I truly believe he is not a good person which is shown in his actions nearly every week, and everything he does. I'm not going to list them, you can read the thread for them.
Regarding the Ade v Soldado issue. Fact is people that are nice people will always be seen in a better light and will get the benefit of the doubt. Its that simple, despite others wishing to bring other reasons.. colour, ex-Ar5ena1.. blah blah.
But you don't know Ade or soldado, for all we know they could both be cu nts . Or both amazing people.
I think part of this is the fact that Ade is culturally very different from a lot of fans, I don't think it's a racist or a rather a black thing, but cultural ly he is very different so fans don't get him or some of his actions. I remember Ade getting abuse for the dance he used to do, when he scored, what's that about? It's not because he can't dance because he patently can, but that little dance was alien to a lot of people, so it was deemed embarrassing, while Keane's (for instance) rolly Polly and arrow was much more accepted, even though it was soo much more shi t.
Another example would be Ade misses a sitter and he smiles (quite obviously embarrassed) is taken to mean he doesn't care ..... But soldado after missing one of a million sitters goes to kick the goal post (and probably misses ) oh that means he cares and is upset........ We don't know what they are feeling, soldado could be just upset that he is Not going to get his goal bonus and couldn't give a shi t that spurs didn't score, and forgets about it in 10 minutes (ready to miss another chance), while Ade May not sleep for three nights devastated that he feels he let the team down.
And before you or anyone else picks on these examples which are founded almost completely in conjecture....... Realise that they are just that..... Founded in conjecture, as are many of our opinions on people we simply don't know, and in some cases culturally alien to us.... Therefore we don't understand their actions, or misunderstand them.