Of all the many
moving tributes paid this week to Ray Wilkins, two stand out. One was from Nigel Quashie, who was 17 when Wilkins, as manager of Queens Park Rangers, handed him a daunting Premier League debut at Old Trafford. Quashie thought he had just been taken along for the ride until Wilkins passed him a shirt before kick-off. He played on adrenaline and when, still on a high, he borrowed his manager’s phone after the game to tell his mother what had happened, she told him she was waiting outside. Wilkins had tipped her the wink and made sure that she was there, even paying for her train ticket to Manchester.
Quashie’s tribute, “a real human being with such class”, was echoed by others, not least Ian Holloway. Wilkins’s former QPR team-mate was close to tears on Wednesday afternoon as he told talkSPORT about a “unique human being”, but he sounded saddest when he touched on the final years of Wilkins’s life. “I think deep down there was a sadness sometimes in him because he wanted to be involved in the game and he missed it,” Holloway, now QPR’s manager, said.
“Ray dedicated his life to the game and, without it, I feel there was a sadness in him that nobody, maybe not even his wonderful wife, Jackie, could quite reach. I don’t know if he ever realised how we all felt about him. I hope he felt it.”