All of which is not what started this thread, it was name calling and how some collapse under it ( or not). The things you add on to that are completely different.
We have all been called names during our life ( or at least i have not come across anyone who has not) and its not the end of the world, it just seems to me in todays world that there seems to be a rush to be offended rather then ignore what some brain dead macaron is calling you.
It runs a lot deeper that that. There is correlation to people's words and the things that the person you are quoting is talking about.
By singling out a group for abuse you are dehumanising them. You are making them lesser than you. If they are lesser than you why should they have the same rights?
Not saying you make that jump, but there are those who will make that jump, and the words we choose has an influence on their self justifications. That's how fascist flourish.
Take Scara for an example, some think he is a bit of a d ick. But even those that do, would say that he is reasonably intelligent and professes to be quite sucessful. He is at least on this board (but maybe in real life as well) an ''influencer". Him expressing views that single out any particular group for abuse could have very real world physical implications for members of that group. As people may use his words to shape or at least reinforce their racist attitudes and or /actions
In short words matter.