Spur of the moment
Frederic Kanoute
So sorry to hear that. Terrible blow.As someone who's lost an elderly relative through this most unusual time, am I entitled to say "go fudge yourself"?
I guess it depends on why you feel like you're being held hostage. If you've got a business to run that's been severely affected and there's not the support in place I can understand why compassion might go out the window if you have a family that are dependent on that income supply.
However if you're just missing the golf course in addition to your fav restaurant and the elderly (they're almost dead anyway right?!?!) are preventing you from enjoying your youthful years, kindly sit on it and swivel.