Blimey.
Going to be some hefty "presents" flying around then.
Don't quote me though, that might have been a number for home care (or something else), rings a bell though.
She could buy a car, which you use etc.
Lots of easy ways to eat up alot of £
If she has fairly big dough, might be worth buying a care home with it! They are gold mines as anyone with experience knows.
I'm sure I read that on average 85% of estate wealth is spent once in care, as more and more drugs are prescribed, keeping the 'client' sedated and needing less care ...