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Tony Galvin
As I've said before, one person's negative is another person's positive. As an example, if someone does want Ange out it is purely because they want a positive outcome for the club. We should not label them as negative because they actually aren't. It is sort of the same as censoring all conversations about it whilst we wallow in victory. If people want to talk about, then let them. We all have a choice to join in or not. It'\s a lot worse when people don't write what they are actually feeling.
Your original point is the more interesting one though. When we went 1-0 up yesterday, my mate and I spent the next hour fearing that they would score. We even said it out loud a few times. I'm guessing we sort of expected it as an ingrained behaviour after decades of Spurs failing. The great question is how does the Spurs fan mentality shift into a much stronger belief system. When do we start sitting there thinking about the 2nd and 3rd goal rather than the opposition scoring in our net? That's how a Pool fan thinks right now.
My feeling on this is a bigger picture perspective actually. I would say that Spurs (and England) has been the weakest link in my life for a long time. I've won in life in so many other ways and experienced success in almost every other aspect. Therefore, as Spurs make their change it should be easy just to slot into that persona. It's the "reasons to believe" argument. Are Spurs giving us enough reasons to believe? I'm not the type to be a happy clapper. I need reasons to be a happy clapper. What happened last night was a reason. Now I need more and more. Just like Robspur was talking about the other day. Being that 8 year old in 1981 and seeing the 3 trophies land. I was also that same 8 year old in that same year. By 1985 we had plenty of reasons to believe. Poch also gave us that from about 2015.
Change management is subtle. You can't just make people change. There has to be a belief first. I still think the direction of travel at Spurs is a good one.
I actually practiced mindfulness and shut out all the noise and comments around me (to the point they weren't causing me to react) and fed back into my positive belief that this unit were going to get the job done. Whilst doing so, I acquieseced to the reality that we were also going to need a bit of luck; finals demand it. I genuinely thought Solanke was going to control and blast that pass home in the second-half. When it didn't, I still believed.
This unit -this very young unit- now knows how to get the job(s) done. IMO.