Not really no. Afghanistan was first destabilised by the US funding the Mujahideen to fight...the Russians. All of these examples were brick shows, which weren't? So what you are saying is in these cases mention where we fueled war - either directly or indirectly - the outcome was "a brick show", yet we should now pursue this route, rather than try and de-escalate?
de-escalate is preferable of course … but at what cost?
is it ok for Russia to keep Crimea and most of the south? What happens if Russia wants part of Poland next de-escalate again? How about part of Germany?
actually how about part of Britain? Do we de-escalate again?