I'd rather us choose our capacity based on what we think we can fill, rather than a silly dingdong waving competition with Arsenal. We will not sell out 60k except for the biggest games and 5/6k empty seats per week looks horrible. We need to strike a good balance between increasing the capacity to allow us to compete in the long run, while maintaining enough people on the season ticket waiting list to encourage people to still keep on buying season tickets to ensure their own attendance at big games.
Agreed that whatever capacity is decided upon, the decision should be made entirely without reference to Arsenal and the Emirates stadium.
Can't agree with you, however, that we will fail to sell out 60K for all but the biggest games. You say that you and a great many others on the waiting list have no intention of buying a season ticket at any time. Acknowledged. But there are also a great many who do intend to buy a season ticket as soon as they can. For instance, our group of six regulars has four season tickets between us - two of them to my name. The three who don't have their own season tickets all intend to buy them when the new stadium is built. In fact, one of them intends to buy two.
So with a waiting list of about 35K, I don't think it's unreasonable to estimate that at least 15,000 of them will take up the option for a season ticket. That would take season ticket numbers up to 40K.
On top of that, we would still have a further 50K members (a figure that is likely to grow, given our increased "success" and exposure over the past six years or so - and the perception that we have rejoined the elite). So I would still expect healthy ticket sales to members.
Then there's the Field Of Dreams syndrome. If you build it, they will come. There can be no denying that many fans will be attracted to games just to experience the new stadium. True, many of them will be day trippers or one offs. But some of them will get the bug and return again and again.
Ultimately, of course, the whole point of building the new stadium is so that Spurs are better able to compete. And, if it does its job in that respect, then a virtuous circle will have been created. And ever more fans will want to come to watch the famous Spurs in action.
So while I don't think we'll necessarily sell out every game at a 60K stadium, I don't believe that we'll only manage to sell out the very "biggest games".