Another trick that apparently works is the 'matching' principle.
If you say to him you'll take away what you pay for currently and he has to earn it, he'll resent working, as now he has to put effort in for what he got for free.
So you offer to match his earnings. If his mobile contract is £30 per month, he has to earn £30 (which he keeps) before you pay it - same goes for any other luxuries. Whilst most of us grew up with the hard line, it doesn't work for everyone - especially as most of us probably have more expendable income than our parents did.
A very interesting approach...never did it with my son and daughter has the work gene, but I have to say, it's a productive way of dealing with what is a generational shift for sure.
This 'get what you're given' mentality is gonads! Why should I just happily accept low pay when I can strive to do better?
COYS I have to ask, where do you get the money to do things?
I hope you don't think I'm picking on you, I'm in my mid 20s and didn't get a job til I was 17, but that was mainly because I lived in the arse end of nowhere and if i had money I wouldn't have been able to spend it anyway. It was only when I got a motorbike at 17 that I had was able to do things other than sit at home on a computer all evening.
To get back to the OPs point, my parents put a lot of pressure on me to get a job when I was 15 and 16 but since they didn't really pay for anything for me they didn't really have the option of withholding money for social activities. Damn my teen years were boring as hell.
I am very lucky and over the last year and a bit my weekly allowance has crept up from £10 a week to £25 a week where it is now. This is on top of all my phone bills and necessities, so that's another reason I want a job as I feel like I should start earning this myself.
I was thinking of asking my MP if I could do some work experience for him because of my big interest in politics, however I don't think I'll have the time to do that as I'll want a paying job, which is a shame as I can't see when else I'll have the time to do that kind of thing.
Mate, it's not like you'll be getting a full time job. Work a couple nights or weekends and volunteer for your MP too. Hardly an unmanageable workload.
Yes, that's the point. I work hard. My exam results don't come out of nowhere. My point is I deserve more than £4 an hour.
Why do you deserve more than £4 an hour?
Also if McDonalds offered £7 an hour would it be an acceptable job then?
Because if I'm doing a better job than an 18 year old, but he's getting paid more than me because that's legally allowed then I don't think that's fair.
I am very lucky and over the last year and a bit my weekly allowance has crept up from £10 a week to £25 a week where it is now. This is on top of all my phone bills and necessities, so that's another reason I want a job as I feel like I should start earning this myself.
Because if I'm doing a better job than an 18 year old, but he's getting paid more than me because that's legally allowed then I don't think that's fair.
Really don't understand why the big fuss about COYS not wanting to work at McD's for 4 quid an hour. He's set his goals higher than that. Best of luck to him.
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