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El Guepardo said:
That's the impression I'm getting. I couldn't have treated her any better than I did! I cooked for her, I baked for her, I was supportive to her, I was kind to her.... sometimes I think you might actually be right!! I couldn't have treated her any better than I did. I would say next time out, I will be a bastard but that's not me. I can't be a bastard because I wouldn't enjoy being one so all this throwing a woman around a room, not my style! I'm not going to live a lie in terms of relationships, I'll be myself and if, ultimately it isn't enough for whatever reason then fudge it!
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Look El G, you were yourself (always the best route), you probably had (or appeared to) quite a bit in common, so early days things were smooth but as you confess yourself you are a bit slushy and sentimental. She may have liked the romamnce, caring and attention you showed her from the get go, but this veneer will wear off as she begins to see underneath those layers and maybe she thought your a bit soft and soppy all the way to the core. Nothing wrong with that, just not her thing. And ultimately because of the way you are that's why she dumped you the way she did, she knows you're a sensitive soul and didn't want to face you when dropping the bomb.

GGG has a point, many woman do tend to thrive on men being occasional c*nts to them, a bit masochistic but probably presses their 'im going to lose him' buttons

Alternatively she was perhaps not being herself?
 
Blimey, GGG you need some help mate! She could be a nice girl on the date and turn out to be an absolute nutter in a few weeks! Is this like your apartment when you came back?

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Ok this may not be refering to 'online' dating but what do you guys honestly think of the following situation:

I went to a resturant the other night and got speaking to the waitress who is Bulagrian and a similar age to me. I have been to this resturant and have spoken to her several times before and she seems a really nice girl, down to earth, friendly, talkative (even though her English is not 100% more like 90 but she speaks other languages that I know also), hard working (she works all the hours under the sun) and is independant.

I asked her for her number in which she accepted and we have agreed to meet for a drink or to get somthing to eat.

For some reason I keep talking myself out of actually going because in the back of my mind you hear about these horror stories of dating these sort of women. But in her defence she really doesn't appear anything like that.

What are your views?
 
Spursman17, I think you're looking for the wrong audience for your dilemna, I mean I don't think many of us here think about what we do before we do it....

Let's face it, we have one guy who leaves a woman he's met for the first time, in his house by herself
and the rest of us as guys who meet up with women from online, no idea what they are like in person and by that logic take chance every time we do that!
And there's me who goes in head first trying to do what's right and end up getting burned for it....

So really, it's like asking a group of lemmings which part of the cliff is safest to jump from.
 
spursman17 said:
Ok this may not be refering to 'online' dating but what do you guys honestly think of the following situation:

I went to a resturant the other night and got speaking to the waitress who is Bulagrian and a similar age to me. I have been to this resturant and have spoken to her several times before and she seems a really nice girl, down to earth, friendly, talkative (even though her English is not 100% more like 90 but she speaks other languages that I know also), hard working (she works all the hours under the sun) and is independant.

I asked her for her number in which she accepted and we have agreed to meet for a drink or to get somthing to eat.

For some reason I keep talking myself out of actually going because in the back of my mind you hear about these horror stories of dating these sort of women. But in her defence she really doesn't appear anything like that.

What are your views?
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Go on the date, see what she's like. If it doesn't work out then there's no commitment, if she's nice then meet her again - what's to lose?
 
spursman17 said:
Ok this may not be refering to 'online' dating but what do you guys honestly think of the following situation:

I went to a resturant the other night and got speaking to the waitress who is Bulagrian and a similar age to me. I have been to this resturant and have spoken to her several times before and she seems a really nice girl, down to earth, friendly, talkative (even though her English is not 100% more like 90 but she speaks other languages that I know also), hard working (she works all the hours under the sun) and is independant.

I asked her for her number in which she accepted and we have agreed to meet for a drink or to get somthing to eat.

For some reason I keep talking myself out of actually going because in the back of my mind you hear about these horror stories of dating these sort of women. But in her defence she really doesn't appear anything like that.

What are your views?
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Annihilate her fanny.
 
spursman17 said:
Ok this may not be refering to 'online' dating but what do you guys honestly think of the following situation:

I went to a resturant the other night and got speaking to the waitress who is Bulagrian and a similar age to me. I have been to this resturant and have spoken to her several times before and she seems a really nice girl, down to earth, friendly, talkative (even though her English is not 100% more like 90 but she speaks other languages that I know also), hard working (she works all the hours under the sun) and is independant.

I asked her for her number in which she accepted and we have agreed to meet for a drink or to get somthing to eat.

For some reason I keep talking myself out of actually going because in the back of my mind you hear about these horror stories of dating these sort of women. But in her defence she really doesn't appear anything like that.

What are your views?
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care to share a few??? tbh she sounds great so what sort of women are you referring to and what are the horror stories?
 
Back on POF, chatting with few women, used a canned line but it's how I reply to their messages that actually works. Have one that I like who seems like good fun so far, the other 2...well, we'll see.
 
Going on a date with a real woman tonight not this POF milarki! (although I still will be doing the POF milarki soon). Met her on NYE and havent a clue if shes fit or not. I thought she was on NYE but I was tanked. She wont send a picture to me either.... she is South African, better not go to the toilet eh.....
 
GinolaGinolaGinola said:
Going on a date with a real woman tonight not this POF milarki! (although I still will be doing the POF milarki soon). Met her on NYE and havent a clue if shes fit or not. I thought she was on NYE but I was tanked. She wont send a picture to me either.... she is South African, better not go to the toilet eh.....
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Asking for a pic of her tits won't give you any indication of what her face looks like!
 
haha, unfortunately not mate. But I will tell you she was stunning. Very pretty, lovely girl and we hit it off. Only problem is she works in a restaurant/bar and hardly has any time off so doubt we will be able to spend much time together so dating might be an issue. Shes tiny too, 5ft, (im 5ft 7) so felt like a giant. Plus itll make me feel big downstairs.....:p
 
Too easy!! Will have had three dates in one week by Saturday and have another 6 or so women that I'm talking with. Seems as soon as one stops talking, another new one appears.

Taking time to find the right woman who I might want to get more serious with. Going on a date tomorrow with a woman who seems ideal from what I know so far but we'll see.
 
El Guepardo said:
Back on POF, chatting with few women, used a canned line but it's how I reply to their messages that actually works. Have one that I like who seems like good fun so far, the other 2...well, we'll see.
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One of those I had a date with, she was the kind of woman that most guys would go crazy for, me...I enjoyed the date but no sparks, I think I didn't invest heavily in the night. I'm still texting with her though, considering whether to arrange a second date or not.
 
fudge! This is what I didn't want. I'm crazy about a woman I've met recently, we've been out twice, one a date, one a meet and she sees me only as a friend.

Never easy when it happens. I knew the score when I went out with her for the second night but hoped she would change her mind....nope
 
I went on pof to delete my profile. Forgot I still had one.

Who's the last girl I see? My ex of 7 years. Split up about 3 years ago. How funny!
 
Going for drinks with this girl I know this thursday, will see where that takes me but we've been together before etc. Another girl wants me to come round hers soon for some sexytime but I should really be palming her off soon - I think she's starting to like me and I don't want to string her along
 
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