I'd park in one of the official lots…just take a left at the main light near the ground and follow the directions. Intimidating? Nah. Not at all. That was Maine Road mate, and even that was a laugh most of the time (Moss Side, etc)…
I've always found City fans to be really decent, even
after 'that' night other than a bit of jawing from a few local wags, it was fine. A beer? Personally, I've always arrived there about an hour before and had a few swiftys and a sing in the away end bar. I spent last season's pre-match drunkenly singing 'Dempsey Dempsey, Born is the King of WHL' to see who would follow (surprisingly none!!!!

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I like Eastlands to be fair, in and in the last few seasons it's finally developed a sense of identity. One of the few away grounds too where the stewards actually 'get it' and are happy to let some banter/standing go…
I think you'll have a great day out...