I naturally assumed you meant all answers to be the same thing i.e. it seemed odd to me that the above answer featured different years, games, players.
For me it was all 1990 England vs West Germany, everything about it was so incredible. The moment, the characters, the pain, the joy, the excitement, the pinnacle of a tense tournament, everything was perfect apart from one small detail. Spoiler alert...
Gazza getting booked, Lineker looking at Bobby Robson. Steve Bull waiting in the wings after that goal against Belgium. Incredible. Brehme's deflected freekick off Paul Parker, looping over the hapless Shilts for the second tournament in a row. I remember vividly, I was 15, watching with friends in the lounge with the curtains drawn over the doors...when it all went wrong with Waddle's beautiful penalty rising powerfully into the roof of the....stand we all screamed in frustration as only freshly embittered teenagers can, punching the floor, stamping on bunny rabbits, railing against the world... I remember running out into the sunshine in the garden and thinking what a cruel world it was ... and my dad burst into the lounge and asked what the *dingdongens* was going on, as he had no clue of the importance to the world.
Being an England fan AND a Spurs fan truly messed me up.